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Mars & Venus
All types will always be there. You see posts all the time of 20/30 somethings hoping to go when more 20/30 somethings will be there. You see those with scars and extra pounds hoping they won't be the odd one out amongst beautiful 20 somethings. You see various races hoping to go when more of "their" race will be there. Lots of comments here (and on other forums) about "educated professionals" or people trying to find "like-minded" people (whatever that means to them). There are those that want more singles, those that want only couples, those that fear they'll be excluded if they are not swingers, those that think they'll be viewed differently if they "soft swap' only, those that are insecure about their bodies, penis size, fat content, masculinity/femininity, ability to socialize and talk, and those that are young buff and beautiful that hope to find more young buff and beautiful people to play with. All kinds, seeking all kinds. For the most part, it simply doesn't matter. We've lost some fantastic opportunities because we didn't catch on fast enough about how great other couples were because of our blinders or "seeking criteria." We've been burned by people we thought were like us. We've ended up making tremendously great friends who are very dear to us that before the lifestyle we probably would have been afraid to talk to. One of our favorite couples is about 15 years older than us. (We're 45.) We thought we could NEVER play with anyone younger than our son or daughter. Surprise! Point is: everyone will be there in every shape and size and age and whatever. You'll find someone. But don't be surprised if they are WAY different than you ever imagined, or be kicking yourself for not seeing the potential in those that you glossed over because they weren't what you THOUGHT you were looking for. That said, I understand about "take-over" weeks. If you’re not kinky, Kink Week might not be the time for you. If you're not bi, Wild Women Week may change the climate a bit. But even in take-over weeks there's plenty to go around. We don't do kink, but I bet someone from that week could "tone it down" to play with us if they wanted. Venus isn't bi, but I'll be a unicorn would play with us if she wanted to. I don't go looking for BBW, but ...wow! some of those gals are amazing human beings. Ask anyone about Yusuf the iconic blind guy at Hedo. They'll have stories. Age? I've gotten over that. Anyone who's done this for awhile can explain that. Do what you want. Do what you feel comfortable with. My only real caution is that as you seek to find "compatible" people, don't limit yourself (or exclude others). Most cannot do this, but being nekkid helps. That's why everyone is nekkid. No pretense. No clothes. No watches. No wallets. Just you, your skin, and your personality. No worries, mon. One love.
-- Mars
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