If you're single, it's an entirely different thing... if you get invited to a lifestyle event it doesn't make you a swinger; it makes you lucky. Ha ha ha
So... I can only speak for my own experience, but I think it's pretty common. We meet people who are in the lifestyle with the intention of socializing and the awareness that if we find we all get along, we may engage in some sexual play. That doesn't mean that every person we meet is someone we'll play with. As for having our cabin numbers in our sigs, that is an invitation to look us up if people want to find us. Invitations to play are generally reserved for AFTER you've met someone in person and determined that you're interested.
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