Advise for newbies?

**Londinium** · 03-25-2012, 08:00 AM

Our only complaint about the swingers at Hedo is that they don't hit on us enough!

**CopNkitten** · 03-25-2012, 09:19 AM

Originally Posted by Londinium

Our only complaint about the swingers at Hedo is that they don't hit on us enough!

Note to self, make sure to hit on the sexy brits more.
Check.
Cop N kitten..

**Londinium** · 03-25-2012, 10:44 AM

Originally Posted by CopNkitten

Note to self, make sure to hit on the sexy brits more.
Check.
Cop N kitten..

"Make it so"

**Desert Dwellers** · 03-25-2012, 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by queltor

...Part of the problem is that her circumstances have recently changed...

...I should add it wasn't her partner that put her off, one of her other friends...

I understand the change in circumstances. We had a friend going to one of our local spots but she dropped out when she got involved with a guy.

Just curious about this "other friend"... Do they have actual experience at Hedo, or is their opinion based on hearsay?

**cowgirl** · 03-25-2012, 10:57 AM

Originally Posted by Desert Dwellers

I think the only regret most people have about Hedo is that they didn't discover it earlier in life. Certainly true in our case!

This is exactly our only regret!! We wish we had discovered it years ago. We went to Desire 2 times, before we finally braved Hedo, because we had heard so many "scary" things about the single males at Hedo. Where do all of these crazy rumors come from anyway?
Missing Hedo so much right now. Trying to figure out how to head back!
Cowgirl

**CopNkitten** · 03-25-2012, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by Londinium

"Make it so"

OMG, first a sexy red head, with a great body, and an accent, like that wasnt enough.
Now quoting star trek.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmm
Cop (who has a son named James T)

**queltor** · 03-25-2012, 12:35 PM

Originally Posted by Desert Dwellers

I understand the change in circumstances. We had a friend going to one of our local spots but she dropped out when she got involved with a guy.

Just curious about his "other friend"... Do they have actual experience at Hedo, or is their opinion based on hearsay?

He's just make assumptions- unfortunately not everyone is as open minded as the peeps here :-( Either way though, as she's in a relationship and this isn't your "average" holiday destination I won't try and change her mind on this one.

**queltor** · 03-25-2012, 12:38 PM

[QUOTE=cowgirlwe had heard so many "scary" things about the single males at Hedo. Where do all of these crazy rumors come from anyway?
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Haha! Watch out lol I may be one of those pesky single makes in a year or two! No only kidding, i'll behave :-)

**Readyforfun1** · 07-25-2012, 02:41 PM

Is there a good time verses another for a newbe to experience the lifestyle for the first time. Looking for fun. Would like to go in January but, is it busy then or dead.

**mac_r_a** · 07-25-2012, 03:07 PM

Originally Posted by Readyforfun1

Is there a good time verses another for a newbe to experience the lifestyle for the first time. Looking for fun. Would like to go in January but, is it busy then or dead.

January is Lifestyle month, so most of the weeks are sold out. And it may not be the best time to "try it out" since it is Lifesytle month. Any other time of the year there are still a lot of people who go there for the lifestyle. Also a lot of people are "vacation swingers" which means they only play at Hedo.