Single guys have a bad rep?

**dashy1** · 03-10-2010, 05:54 AM

I think this is an old one but people like myself who are going to hedo think people tar every single guy with the same brush? this is not true they maybe very aware of past exsperiances but if that single guy has some respect for couples and single ladies then he will get respect back,Have a good laugh and a beer and if things happern then things are good but dont just go to hedo to have sex with loads of ladies, They are friends not hookers and deserve loads of respect as your best friend would This is how i see it and how you would be exspected to be ? DASHY1........

**d281** · 03-10-2010, 07:27 AM

I'm hedo-going single male and about to embark on my second trip at the end of March. If you cross pollinate SEXYCTAIL's suggestions with RTMILF's you'll have a pretty good idea how to act.

Moorerotic has posted before that keeping a good buzz is the way to go as opposed to getting drunk....very good advice...!

as most posts are the poster's opinions, they can be egocentric and.... in the written form present as if the poster is making sweeping generalizations...i don't believe most are doing that....so don't let anyone posting their negative experiences dissuade you from going and enjoying yourself. They are simply posting their experiences.

i would add one suggestion to the mix. make some friends on-line who are going to the same place at the same time as you. it's great to break the ice and can help you meet a variety of folks you might not otherwise approach on your own. it was a lot of help for me as the atmosphere was so charged when i first got to H2 that I was very overwhelmed, but seeing someone i recognized helped me get situated...

just my 2 pesos...from TX...

**Lorenzo&Anna** · 03-10-2010, 01:07 PM

Chrisboyto,

I don’t really have an opinion on the single guy at hedo issue, each time we have gone there were always some singles floating around. They were always respectful, interesting and cool and having an awesome time! But I just don’t think they were having as much fun as the rest of us, There are some things you just will not be able to be part of. sorry, that’s my observation.

here is an idea! Bring a female with you. Girlfriend, X-girlfriend, Sister, cousin, co-worker. Hell you could even go on web sites like; sls.com, craigslist, the list goes on… and find someone to bring…

The cost would not be that much more. You are paying a premium price to go as a single share and you will be sharing a room with a guy you don’t know... Pay the extra $600 - $800 and take that hot girl that gets you your coffee at starbucks every morning… she could be the next Ms. Chrisboyto

Whatever you end up doing, you will have an awesome time at hedo! single or not.

**twods** · 03-10-2010, 02:22 PM

The trips we've made we've always met single guys that hung out with our group, they were cool, we still keep in touch. My litmus test is if I have to ask if you're there by yourself you won't have a problem. That being said, our last trip was affected by several douche bags that hung around the hot tub at night, fully clothed, waiting for a show. Another group would go to the disco and try and take photos before being tossed out and they pissed a LOT of people off. If you're sociable and friendly you are going to make friends. If a single guy gropes my wife's ass in the pool or hot tub I'm going to make him very uncomfortable. A funny thing is we've had the most trouble with drunk single women. We pay all this money to have a good time and some drunk thinks they have the right to touch someone without permission, well, I figure I have the right to have some fun and make them hide at the quad for a couple of days.

**pornstar1360** · 03-10-2010, 05:42 PM

Agree with all of the above, but piss someone off and the group can make it a virtual hell for your time there, you'll be given a nickname and everyone will flee with in sight of you or make you very uncomfortable. Be cool, never force it and you'll be alright.

H3 Trip 6~July 31 2010

**Moorerotic** · 03-11-2010, 08:34 AM

Very good advice:

Originally Posted by Lorenzo&Anna

Chrisboyto,

I don’t really have an opinion on the single guy at hedo issue, each time we have gone there were always some singles floating around. They were always respectful, interesting and cool and having an awesome time! But I just don’t think they were having as much fun as the rest of us, There are some things you just will not be able to be part of. sorry, that’s my observation.

here is an idea! Bring a female with you. Girlfriend, X-girlfriend, Sister, cousin, co-worker. Hell you could even go on web sites like; sls.com, craigslist, the list goes on… and find someone to bring…

Extremely bad advice:

Originally Posted by Lorenzo&Anna

The cost would not be that much more. You are paying a premium price to go as a single share and you will be sharing a room with a guy you don’t know... Pay the extra $600 - $800 and take that hot girl that gets you your coffee at starbucks every morning… she could be the next Ms. Chrisboyto

Maybe pay for a girlfriend, or ex-girlfriend (with guaranteed benefits) to go. A sister, cousin, or coworker should pay her own way.

Paying for the hot girl at Starbuck's is the ultimate sign of insanity. How you begin a relationship with a woman is how you will end a relationship with a woman. If you begin a relationship with a woman PAYING for her to be with you, and she ends up being Ms. Chrisboyto, then you end it PAYING to get rid of her. It's called divorce.

There are enough women in the world who would like go to Hedo and are willing to pay their own way, and if you can use your internet skils to find one, that's great. Just don't be Captain Save A Ho. If a woman is not willing to pay for her own trip, you don't need her in your life.

**barbnrick** · 03-11-2010, 12:35 PM

Taking an escort is not such a bad idea. An escort may be a bit pricey but probably a lot more fun than an inflatable woman. Though an inflatable woman has the added benefit of also serving as a flotation device in the pool. Most escorts will sink like a rock.

**jcandt69** · 03-11-2010, 09:11 PM

Save a ho. lol omg can i get a tax break for that? hell ive been audited 2 times whats one more. can i also get a matching shirt and hat?

**caughtyoulookin** · 03-12-2010, 07:14 AM

Everybody at Hedo has to mind thier behavior, not just singles. I've seen a few of both sexes who can't handle thier liquor and get unruly. Obnoxious behavior puts people off and it's no fifferent because you're at Hedo. You know if you get unruly when you drink (so switch to ganja.) Use your head and do the right thing or you'll get labeled (single or married.)

**jcandt69** · 03-12-2010, 12:18 PM

you bought your ticket so why worry about it. the number #1 rule i have is have fun but not at someone elses expense. that keeps it all good. we personally are not into the single dude thing. dont understand it BUT we dont knock it. to each his own. i do believe lorenzo and anna where on to something. if you could bring someone then you will not be excluded from any group. single or married.

**NorthernBoy** · 04-26-2010, 10:16 PM

I think that one of the best things about Hedo 3 is that there are single guys. Sometimes with couples the husband or wife will get all possessive on us. When you are having fun with a single (or two) they don't have an conditions or loyalties going into the situation. And when the fun is over no obligations or attachment issues to deal with.

NB